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The True Meaning of Hard Work and Motivation

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The True Meaning of Hard Work and Motivation

 

Old Lady: "Hey, this is a picture of my sweet baby Deloris"

Dude: "Uhm, okay"

Old Lady: "And this is Mathew. He's a lawyer. He's gonna get married soon"

Dude:"Hey look, lady, that's really nice. Can you give me a pack of reds already"

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Old man: "Hello"

Dude: "Wassup"

Old man: "You seem like you're from America"

Dude: "Uhh, yeah"

Old Man: "I studied my Masters and my PhD in Texas. I studied surgery there. I've been a surgeon for 37 years"

Dude: ".... okay"

Old Man: "Can you imagine that there are only 8 surgeons in my country? The rest are all foreigners. I have been a guest in numerous international conferences and wrote 4 books and ..."

Dude: "Okay okay, that's cool man. Is the bus coming anytime soon?"

Old Man: "I don't know, I think .."

Dude: "That's okay I'll just take a cab"

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Dude studying all night long self talking to himself.

" ... okay. I busted my ass on this. I've been working for three nights in a row with no break. I'm still not anywhere near ready. But that's okay. My mom saw me studying my ass off. So if I fail she'll understand that I tried my best. My dad can't accuse me that I was screwing around. If he does I'll just tell him I tried and its not my fault. I can get away with that now because I REALLY DID try my best."

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Breakdown time:

What do all these guys have in common?

They all feel that they're working hard because they have to ANSWER TO SOMEONE ELSE.

They're not doing it to be TRUE TO THEMSELVES.

I am a big promoter of NOT GIVING A SHIT ABOUT PEOPLE'S STANDARDS.

If I find an old lady having trouble carrying her groceries, I help her not because "society's standards" tell me to do it. I do it because MY OWN STANDARDS tell me to do it. My OWN PRINCIPLES tell me to do it.

If I wanna pass exams or ace tests, I wanna do it to EXCEL MY OWN FUTURE. I don't do it because I have to "answer to my dad".

This is super VITAL as the source of generating your inner motivation to move. Because it's INTERNAL.

Notice when someone is told to be good in class. Let's say its an environmental studies class. The dude gets C-s and shit. Then he meets a really hot babe in class. She turns out to be a hippy who's passionate about the environment. Then they end up in the same group. The guy suddenly transforms from an idiot in class to a super nerd. Get As. But then suddenly .... she dumps him.

What do you think happens after that?

Exactly. He'll be like "what's the point, why bother" then start getting Cs again.


Guys. If you keep the motivation source of hardwork *EXTERNAL*, you're screwing yourself in the ass. Believe me.

Because if you keep your motivation "A person you have to answer to":

1-That motivation will be temporary

2-You will try to manipulate the "I tried but the 'circumstances' were all against me" excuse to the person you always answer to i.e. Dad, husband, wife, boss, teacher ...etc.

3-You will have 0% REAL MOTIVATION and always find an easy way to get things done.


Guys if you're not convinced about what your doing, stop doing it. Stop studying a major that your dad forced you to study. Because if you're doing it to:

ATS (Answer To Somebody),

you're not gonna work hard and you're gonna keep fucking around.

If you,

ATY (Answer To Yourself)

you're gonna seriously work your ass off because you want the thing you want really bad.

I always wondered why I sucked at some of my responsibilities, then I realized, I was ATSing these responsibilities, I wasn't ATYing them.

I noticed when I was committed about a play or a short movie or my hair or improving my vocal skills, my dad never cared about all that. As a result, I kicked ass at it. I was an ATYer about it.

But shit like, visiting my aunt or getting a 3.0 GPA or finding a job, I'm ATSing big time in these things. That's why I suck at it and fuck around about it all the time. I never get it done because I'm doing it to answer to someone else instead of answering to myself.

The old lady who works in a 7-11 and showed the dude her kids' pictures because she "feels satisfied" that she's a "good mom". She forgot the part about herself studying law and failing at it. So she brags about something else to make herself sound like an achiever to take away the feeling of responsibility that she has to achieve her law dreams. SHE WORKS IN A 7-11!!! But she doesn't care now. Because all her life she felt she had to answer to society instead of answering to herself. Now that society thinks she's "okay" by being a good mom, she has no motivation to finish her law dreams now. Society gave her approval and forgiveness. She doesn't have to answer to it anymore. She's forgiven, so she's allowed to fail now.

If she was true to herself and only answered to herself, she would've kept working hard and not bail until she becomes a lawyer.


The Old Man is the same case. He "used to" be a surgeon. Now that his country gave him validation, he feels like the shit and he doesn't feel the need to change the crisis of surgeon scarcity in his country. He "did his part". That's it. He doesn't have to answer to the people who might think that he's not a patriot to his people. Because he "proved them wrong".

"Prove them wrong" = Answering to "them". ATSing

Now he feels he doesn't need to train other surgeons in his country because he says that "nobody funded him". What really happened is that he only asked two people to fund him then he got lazy. Now he's using the "I tried but the 'circumstances' were all against me" excuse.

Look guys. I used to be crazy about making music and writing movies. But now that my band members expected work from me, I became 20X lazier. Because now its not true and raw passion anymore, its work and ATS. I stopped writing scripts because I was afraid "people" were not gonna like it. ATS-energy lurked inside my MotivationGenerator. So I didn't do shit.

Do you ever feel excited about doing someone else a favor? Like if some random dude in class says if you could copy your notes for him, do you ever feel motivated to do it? You're gonna say "yeah sure" then when you see him again you're gonna say "Oh, dude, sorry I was really busy". You weren't really busy. You just didn't want to do someone else any work that you feel you weren't gonna benefit from.

Lets look at that last phrase again:

You just didn't want to do someone else any work that you feel you weren't gonna benefit from.

Okay. ATS feels EXACTLY like that.

You just didn't want to do someone else any work that you feel you weren't gonna benefit from.

You just didn't want to do someone else any work that you feel you weren't gonna benefit from.

You just didn't want to do someone else any work that you feel you weren't gonna benefit from.

You just didn't want to do someone else any work that you feel you weren't gonna benefit from.

You just didn't want to do someone else any work that you feel you weren't gonna benefit from.

Is it hammering inside your head enough?

Stop DOING SOMEONE ELSE ANY WORK YOU FEEL YOU AREN'T GONNA BENEFIT FROM and start doing work YOU feel YOU'RE gonna benefit from.

Start understanding that your work is meant FOR YOU and start understanding how vital that work is TO YOU. And always know that you have yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself yourself and ONLY YOURSELF to *answer to*.

Don't be the Old Lady in the 7-11. Don't be that nobody surgeon who thinks he's the shit. Do you really want your destiny to look like that? Do you really want to end up like one of them? Not fulfilling your goals in life because the people you had to answer to patted you in the back and said "its okay, you did your best". Do you really want that to be your fate?

Never let the ATS energy lurk inside your being. Make it purely ATYness

I love my dad, society and country. But I don't care what my dad wants. I don't care what society wants. I don't care what my country wants. I only care about what I want. And motivation IS what you *want*. Obligation is what someone else wants. Obligation is what you *have to* do, not what you *want* to do.

Hard work comes from being motivated, not obligated.

So are you gonna answer to someone else? or are you gonna pursue what you WANT and only answer to yourself?

 


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